Ulta 21 Days of Beauty: Smashbox Full Face

Ulta is having their 21 Days of Beauty going on right now!!! In my pursuit of looking for long lasting makeup and curisoity of makeup in general I did their full face consultation. I knew that Smashbox makeup was used in the Smashbox studios in LA on photoshoots and movies. I have to say that I overall loved the products that she used. They say that the foundation (with Primer) lasts for 15 hours. I sat in the sun, played outside (#sweatlife), rubbed my face occasionally....and it stayed in place. I hated that I didn't take any picture of the before and after. I didn't really want to go to bed and wash it off. I highly suggest anything that Smashbox has to offer.....foundation, powder, liner, brushes, etc.

Below are the list of items that were used on my face: (sorry no photo's of my face)

Eyes

- Brow Tech-Dark Brown ($26.00)

-Litho Trio Eyeshadow ($28.00)

- Photo Finish Lid Primer ($20.00)

- Jet Set Black Eye Liner ($22.00)

- Full Exposure Mascara ($19.50)

Cheeks

- Blissful Blush ($24.00)

Face

- Photo Finish Primer ($36.00)

- Studio Skin 4-2 Foundation ($42.00)

- Hi Definition- Dark Concealer ($22.00)

- Halo- Dark Powder ($49.00)

Lips

- Eternity Lip Gloss ($22.00)

Jhene Aiko "Bed Peace" Featuring Childish Gambino

Signs of a Virgo...not the song!

Virgo is a very independent zodiac sign. They are fully able to put their intelligence to use and get things done for themselves. It is possible however that their narrow mindedness causes their creativity to suffer and they may lead regular routine lives. They may dwell too much on the past and over complicate things and this may limit their ability to move forward and confuse themselves. In conclusion, Virgos are able to be independent but the less evolved types will have difficult if someone is not there helping them to achieve more and not be so critical of themselves.

Virgo and Independence:

Virgo is a very independent zodiac sign. They are fully able to put their intelligence to use and get things done for themselves. It is possible however that their narrow mindedness causes their creativity to suffer and they may lead regular routine lives. They may dwell too much on the past and over complicate things and this may limit their ability to move forward and confuse themselves. In conclusion, Virgos are able to be independent but the less evolved types will have difficult if someone is not there helping them to achieve more and not be so critical of themselves. People look up to Virgo for friends because they are straight thinkers and solve problems logically. They are truthful, loyal and determined. Some people might find them cold or emotionally detached because they live in their minds, not in their emotions and feelings. It might be hard to pin down how a Virgo friend is feeling because they easily live in denial. A person who is able to read deep into another person will notice when Virgo is not well but if they confront them about it, they would rather retreat then talk about it. It is best to keep your emotional distance from a Virgo friend unless they open up to you first. Virgo might try to analyze and control a friend’s life but only with the idea that they will improve their life, not purely for the sake of controlling. Be patient with your Virgo friend and understand that their recommendations are only to make your life better.

How To Attract Virgo:

Virgos need intellectual stimulation. Impress them with facts and details. Always try to come to conclusions when having a conversation, they do not like topics that go nowhere, they like conversations to come to a close or consensus, even if you agree to disagree. They are very conventional people so do not do anything spontaneous or force them to make a hasty decision, they take their time and think intensely in their mind. They are not slow, their brain is working evaluating everything. Do not attempt to probe inside their mind because their emotions are pretty much closed off until the relationship is solid, and they will decide when that time will be. Virgos are natural worriers, do not let this get to you. Do not give them cause to worry because this makes them get wound up like a spring. Let Virgo take the lead, they like to be in control of what is happening. Keep the date tasteful and do not be vulgar, they like calm and classy surroundings and people.

Reailty Check: When is being the side chick okay?

 Lately a few of our favorite shows have been showing the highs and lows of being the, other woman, also known as the side chick. With shows like Being MaryJane and Scandal you see prominent women in society being in a full on semi-committed relationship with a married man. The passionate love and the emotions that goes into being in these relationship. draw us in week, after week. We all love these shows (myself included) but it makes me wonder if women are really okay with being the other woman aka side chick in a "relationship"?

We've all played the role of the other woman (side chick) and held out hope that the man would leave the woman he's with for you, but in reality does that ever really happen? 9 times out of 10 no it doesn't.  They may not of been married men, but it was a man that in a relationship that you knew about and/or didn't know about.

When it happened to me (deep sigh it happens to the best of us) I felt like I was in competition with someone else and I was always questions my feelings and his feelings. It took over my mind and body. I physically became overwhelmed with what he was doing or they were doing. In the end I left the relationship and never looked back because if he was for me then he would of told me up front about her and  he would of left her immediately to be with me. Even if he would of told me about her I probably would of ended it right there.

I hate to break it to the women that think and believe that their lives will some how take the path that Olivia and Mary Jane's has...but in all honesty it won't. You will never get the same benefits that the wife will have. You have to look at yourself and ask the question, if the roles were reversed how would you feel?  What is the ultimate prize that these men get from being with a single attractive successful woman? Men are intrigued by the fact that they can have relationships with women and not have any strings attached or a commitment.

To answer the question, when is being the side chick ok? It's never okay. You will always have to worry about if his feeling are true or not. As it did with me, thoughts will take over and it will have an effect on everything you do. My word of advice would be if you can't find that ideal man you are looking for, take a look at yourself first and understand YOU, then you will be equipped with all the necessary things that will attract that man that is designed to fit you and the life that you want to live. Also don't go looking for a man, nothing drives me crazy than ladies that feel like they can't live without a man. The right man will find you, when you least expect it. Cliche, but it's true.

Wives are taking note from these shows just like you are, so they are more prepared and ready to take on the challenge when it seems like their man is attempting or about to cheat.

The Start to my Healthier Lifestyle

One of the goals I have for my 2014 year is to loose weight. I gained so much weight and with all the upcoming events I don’t want to cringe at the sight or thought of a camera flashing and showing my unattractive fat areas.

So to start the year off right I took the plunge and signed up for the gym! Yep, I’m a card holding member at Anytime fitness. I choose this gym because my mom is a member and we can work out together when I’m in town with her, it’s small enough but big enough to get everything I need done, and also it’s between my house and work place so I can’t use the excuses it’s to far. Plus the fact that it's open anytime of the day it a plus too!!!

So far I’ve got into a pattern of doing a cardio workout plan ( 1 mile on treadmill and 2.5 on the elliptical) and also doing core ad training (leg press, crunches, squats, lunges, v-cups, and bicycle crunches along with various machines in the gym). It’s been a struggle some days but the bet that my boyfriend and I have is motivation and also knowing that I’m starting to train myself to live a better, healthier life is a plus.

Along with a work out plan, I’m also eating healthier. I hate eating the same thing over and over again, so planning a weeks worth of clean meals in hard. But I’ve found that if I have a salad and switch between a vinegar/oil dressings to a light cup of ranch I’m pretty good. Also, started making fruit smoothies…which have been pretty good. I’m just not a fan of thick smoothies so I let it sit for a while to melt a little.

So in an effort to promote a healthier lifestyle I’m showcasing a few of my meals and smoothie choices and my “healthy” grocery list.

Grocery List:

• Special K
• Almond (unsweetned) milk
• Apples
• Strawberries
• Bananas
• Oranges
• Bell Peppers
• Onions
• Squash
• Cucumber
• Garlic
• Spinach
• Beef Tenderlion
• Salmon
• Shrimp
• Greek Yogurt
• Egg Whites

Meal Options:

Option 1:

• Seasoned fish
• Corn (canned, drained)
• Spinach Salad
• Oil and Vinegar Dressing

Option 2:

• Pork Tenderlion with Sauteed Peppers and Onions
• Spinach salad with side of Light Ranch
• Broiled squash with sea salt andlight extra virgin olive oil

Option 3:

• Egg white omelet with veggies (peppers, mushrooms, onions)
• Wheat Toast
• Fruit

***I'm a huge fan of breakfast for dinner!

Smoothies:

Smoothies consist of five major areas:

1. Fruit
2. Base
3. Thickening
4. Flavor Up
5. Power Boost (optional)

I’ve been following this now I’m just perfecting and looking for a power boost that doesn’t leave a bitter after taste.

The good news I’ve lost 3 pounds and 2 inches…it’s only been two weeks and I’m excited and proud of the results so far.

Within the next few months, I hope to see and post some result photos.

Ten Closet Must Have

Being that it was extremely cold in South Carolina and I did not want to leave the comfort of my home. I decided to clean and organize my closet(s). As I was organizing them I started to make piles of things that I didn't need and things that I could mix and match.

I got to thinking (and making a list) of the top 10 things everyone woman should have in her closet.

1. Black Blazer-- A nice blazer can dress up any outfit that you choose to wear and it fits any body type. I use to be addicted to blazer's and collected various colors and styles. I would dress them up jeans and screen tee or a nice peachy pink blazer over a LBD (little black dress). Now that I'm in a professional/corporate office, I catch myself wearing them almost everyday. You can't go wrong with having a few blazer in your closet.
   Tip: Make sure it fits you and it accentuates your waist 

2. Multi-Colored T-shirts-- I have tons and tons of t-shirts that I wear (mostly in the summer time). They range from black, white, green, pink, cobalt blue whatever Target has. You can mix and match them with your blazer, shorts, skirts or jeans.

3. Statement Heels-- High heels make your legs look longer, leaner and sexier no matter how we complain of the pain after a few hours walking around with them. Nude colored heels match with just about any pattern or dress color. Silver and gold strappy heels also work well with those shimmery cocktail dresses. I catch myself wearing my nude heels to work more and more.

4. Black Dress Pants/skirt-- There are many reasons to keep a pair of black   pants/skirt in your closet, but the most obvious is that they are slimming. The second benefit is that you can pair them with almost any top depending on the look that you are going for. I also like to have a nice pair tucked in my closet that I can pull out for a meeting or presentation that I'm conducting for work.
Tip: You may want to stay away from dark blues because the dark color doesn't stand out against an already dark color


5. Little Black Dress (LBD)-- Every woman owns a few LBD's, at least I do. They do not necessarily have to little in length it can just be a term that we use from time to time. I have plenty of black dresses that I have worn to weddings, funerals, and/or parties. They are sleek, sensual and always makes you look classy (and skinny). Also when buying a LBD note that you should have one that is special than all the others.

6. Scarves--  Really who doesn't love scarves? I have a small collection of scarves that I love to wear with my blazers, LBD's, jeans and especially long sleeve tees. I think that they give an outfit the finishing touch and they ultimately keep you warm.

7. Cardigan-- Along with a large number of blazers I have a growing collection of cardigans. Caridgans are prefect for cold office and also for those chilly nights out on the town. They can also be used to match up great with a summer dress, blouse, and/or tank top for spring/summer events.
 Tip: also make sure these fit and can be buttoned up 

8. Black Opaque Tights-- In the winter a nice pair of black opaque tights are essential to wear with dresses and the occasional dressy shorts that I tend to wear out for a casual night out. Black tights go with almost anything.

9. A good pair of jeans: Dark blue, straight cut and no holes…please! You need to have basic jeans that fit you well and that will look classy casual if you want wear them with heels. Once you have the classic ones, you can have more fun and get different types and colors.

10. White Button Up-- A simple classic white button can give you that extra push in a professional business setting. These shirts give you distinction and you can wear them with jeans as well. Button up's are fabulous and chic. Recently my mom has been getting me to wear a sweater over my white button on. So far I like it and it keeps me warm.
Tip: Make sure when you choose your white shirt, it is your size. If it is too big it will look like you took it from your boyfriends closet.

Happy Shopping Ladies!!!

Makeup 101: Foundation

The evolution of makeup for African American women has came a long way over the past 3 to 4 years. The art of emphasizing the beauty of black women remained undiscovered for years. 

For me personally it started in 2009, when my roommates all convinced me to try makeup, more than just eyeshadow, mascara and lip gloss.  The process always start with hunting for the right line and the right products, especially foundation, which was a struggle for me. You'll have to do a lot of trial and error, which can be rather costly for some.  With anything that you do you always want to make sure you start with the right Foundation. Most African-American women are blessed with flawless skin tone, if you have been blessed then in some cases you can skin foundation all together. For those of us who are not we should always consider and never forget your skin tone and undertones when choosing the right foundation.

Coverage: You have to decide how much coverage do you want. You can choose sheer, medium and full coverage. Me personally I choose full to cover up dark marks and scares. Sheer are those that little to no blemishes. Medium is when you have some areas that you want to conceal or small flaws you want to hide. Full is for those that have uneven skin tones and/or major flaws that we want to cover up. For those that do not have that much to cover I suggest a BB cream. It gives you just enough coverage and also a glow to your face. 

You want to match your over tone to your complexion, I suggest trying different shades along your jaw line. Let the foundation set it and see if it's too dark and in some cases you can tell instantly that something is too light.

 Texture:  Foundation can be cream, liquid, matte or mineral powder. The most common is liquid, it allows you to modify the coverage (little or more) that you may need.  Matte foundations can absorb oils and ultimately leave the skin uneven with a powered-like finish. The matte tends to work better on dry skin, because it helps moisturize the skin. 

Apply:  [ Note: prior to applying foundation you should apply a primer. This topic will be discussed in a later post. Just know it's beneficial.] For those that choose to have little coverage, you can apply the foundation of your choice (preferably liquid users) with your fingers. For medium or full coverage I suggest a sponge or a brush. Some people choose to start from the top (forehead) and work your way down (to your neck). Or you can do the dot method (dots on the left and right side of your nose, one on your forehead and another on your chin). If you choose to do this method you will need to start from the center and work your way out.

After applying the foundation you will then go into applying your concealer and the remainder of your makeup. I'm pretty sure at some point I will cover all of the steps after apply foundation. If there is a professional on site do not be afraid to ask for help.

New Year.....New Chapter

I have been wanting to do a blog for a while and I have been low-key stalking (no judging) blogs that discuss things that I love....makeup, fashion, jewelry, healthy lifestyles, and everything else women love. I'm self proclaimed baller on a budget. I don't always buy the latest and most expensive stuff, but I make it look good. I have a lot on my plate with school, work and family but I'm hoping to be able to update pretty regular about various things that I find interesting. I figured that since it's a new year, why not start the new year off doing something that I have on my vision board.

I hope that you stick around as I figure my way around doing the blog and also read and provide feedback on various things that are posted.